A Conversation with Kiri Westby

What inspired you to tell your story in Fortune Favors the Brave?

I initially felt inspired to write Fortune Favors The Brave to tell other people’s stories, the ones that had molded and informed my way of being in the world. In the process, I told my own story. In many ways, my story feels like a tapestry woven of the many stories shared with me.

What do you hope is the biggest takeaway from the book?

That each of us has a unique and powerful role to play in healing what is broken in the world. Every person alive today is invaluable to the global revolution for equal rights, no matter how small you feel at times, your contribution is necessary.

Can you talk a little bit about the importance of recognizing women heroes, especially in today’s political climate?

I’m not sure about the importance of hero-izing anyone, as often it seems to strip people of their initial power and buys into our celebrity-worship culture. As soon as someone feels that they have something significant to lose, they often lose their nerve to create real change. So I like to think about the importance of recognizing that initial energy: the all-out, no-holds-barred, chutzpah that causes someone to get out of their comfort zones and start yelling ENOUGH! That is the spark we need to recognize, and nurture, and fund.

What is the best piece of advice anyone has ever given you?

Mom: Before you marry someone, travel with them for a year. In travel, all of our true colors come out, and you see what someone is truly made of. 

The Eagle (my mentor in Kenya): If you've come here to help me, you're wasting your time. If you've come here because you understand that your liberation is inextricably linked with mine, then roll up your sleeves and join us.

What advice would you give someone who feels compelled to use their privileges and their voice to make a change in the world?

It’s not easy. In fact, speaking up within protected circles of privilege and power is incredibly difficult. My grandma used to say, “If you see something wrong, stand up! Even if you’re standing alone.” And that’s my advice too. Changing systems of oppression starts from within those systems, and often the first step is the hardest. Vow to be the person who takes that first step alone.

What is something people would be surprised to learn about you?

I use the same email address that I opened in 1995. Also, I've never had cable television, and I've never used a dating app!